‘My daddy coolest! – Know about this cute tale of Father-Child Relationship’

What happens when Daddy plays MOM for a Day –

Dad; someone who brings hopes of independence from Mom’s jail, 

When mom is angry and whining fire, dad is the rescuer with a happy face. 

He gets her the awesome gifts and is her only solace.

Comes home with the widest smile, brings out many surprises.

Takes out to new places, long drives, for yummy food and beautiful beaches.

He can become a camel, a lion, a tortoise or a mouse.

He laughs out loud and tells mom not to shout.

I like it more with him and when mom is gone out.

We sneak into the tent house, do piggyback, play console, pillow fight out.

Wish to have dad all throughout !!! ©Dipika Singh

Dad – My Perfect Partner in Crime

This is a typical example of my house when it’s the ‘role reversal’. I managed my whole pregnancy and post-partum by myself. Without being dependent on any help from moms (of both sides; mine & husband’s). The bond that we mom-daughter share is magical. I always believed that I know best of ‘how to‘, ‘what to‘ & ‘when to‘ for my little lo.

But then comes the time when my over the top advisory fell straight on its face. I leave my little girl with her dear Dad for some hours. Now the whole equation is changed. He becomes the Coolest Dad who knows all tricks, he’s makes her cozy, jumpy, yet safe. He goes wild with her, makes funny faces, play messy games. Most importantly he let her be her age. 

We moms usually toil behind the surface of wrongs and rights. Our main motive is to make our children capable and acceptable in their nichè. I have encountered the scenarios where fingers were pointed towards the mother if a CHILD misbehaves. But now things are changing, and we are moving towards equal parenting.

I too shared an open relationship with my Dad back then. But the openness and transparency I see between my kid and her father are quite different from mine. Today fathers take & share the same responsibility for bringing up the child as mothers. Probably it’s the by-product of a single child or nuclear family habitations.

Magical Connection – Father-Child Relationship

I enjoy seeing this magical connection between my two. She waits for him until late in the night, all she wants is to fill her piggy bank with his given coins. She giggles when he swoons me in his arms calls him Papu is Shahrukh Khan.

Also, read about Father-Child Relationship in my Gleeful Parenting series.

The secret of being this Coolest Dad is open and quite mean… When it comes to being funny he keeps the reins. The dirty work of reprimanding, pass the buck to ME. Oh YEAH!! Here come the devil and her leash…

This combination of hot & sweet is age-old for mom’s but the father’s love and parenting style is evolving. I believe it’s a start of something good. I enjoy watching them go crazy and when I poke my nose – she tells me – “Mom take a chill-pill”.

This post is an entry for father’s day contest by kreativemommy

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22 Comments

deepagandhi · January 18, 2017 at 7:25 am

Haha..enjoyed reading it Dipika. The poem is really good. Hence proven, Kids love their dads and enjoy more with them.Thanks for linking up with #MondayMommyMoments 🙂

Healthwealthbridge by Dr.Amrita Basu · January 18, 2017 at 7:42 am

Yes Daddy does do.all the cool stuff.Having a great Dad makes the work of parenting halved .Great post .Thanks for writing with us hot #MondayMommyMoments

Ila Varma · January 18, 2017 at 10:00 am

Actually Dad are in directly parenting role when Mum is out, so he behaves coolly or tolerate their tantrums but if they have to remain with kids for long period, they too will become crazy like Moms. Loved ur style Amrita.

Ruchie · April 2, 2017 at 9:03 am

It’s true dad’s are hero!! I miss my dad and happy that Mayank is perfect hero dad!!

    Gleefulblogger · April 2, 2017 at 9:18 am

    True… couldn’t agree anymore. Thanks for commenting

Anagha Yatin · June 20, 2018 at 12:45 pm

Loved the opening poem you penned Dipika. It has the entire gamut of emotions from the father -daughter world!
And the two daughters, two fathers from two different generations…that was adorable.

zainab · June 20, 2018 at 11:41 pm

Oh I’m so,ewhat glad to know that I’m not he only mom who sees her kids proffering mum. I also loved spending time with dad more. Guess the good cop bad cop thing.

akashpatwari · August 1, 2018 at 9:49 am

Father’s love is something that no one can explain, They love their children during the worst and best of times.

llalexxbloomll · August 1, 2018 at 11:36 am

We always concentrate on mom so much that we forget about what dady do for us and it is really important to appreciate them to great article

Nidhi KM · August 1, 2018 at 2:09 pm

Indeed the relationship between kids and fathers are evolving by the day. Fathers are taking more responsibilities at home front which gives them extra time for kids

jhilmildsaha · August 1, 2018 at 4:49 pm

Daddy is always the cooler one with whom all the fun happens and daddy’s day in is always better and fun.

Mrinal Kiran · August 1, 2018 at 8:05 pm

I never had that very transparent or close relationship with my dad but still we manage to pull mom’s leg and laugh behind her back.. bonding with dad is an amazing one ❤

Jhilmil Bhansali · August 1, 2018 at 10:04 pm

I juts loves this beautiful take of child and father an started imagining my relation with my dad which was full of fun. Even my son’s relation with his dad Seema ao charming to me.

Papri Ganguly · August 2, 2018 at 7:51 am

so true. Your post reminds me quite a few phases of my childhood. Yes Dads are Angels.

Snigdha · August 2, 2018 at 9:30 am

Very true.. Daddys are really cool, even my son and his dad’s relationship is very chilled out kind. . And I am always enjoy their funny activities .

Jasmeet Kaur · August 5, 2018 at 6:51 am

Oh I couldn’t have agreed more.. Daddy Love is of a different kind and it’s so heart wrenching to watch it blossom.. In our house too, dad is like a bestie and mom is the tough task master

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