Sleeping – I had many issues with it earlier, but after becoming a ‘mommy’ realisation struck me how wrong I was!
Baby – “Mommy I am sleepy”
Mom – Ok baby let’s go to bed…
Baby – Yessss… it’s play time – on bed!!
Mommy – *faints*
Don’t you agree, when the little angel arrived she had very irregular sleeping habits – elders in family and peers advised with their experience every month or two the sleeping habits change in infants. I waited ….. waited…. and waited for 4 months but she was a night owl. Would sleep just for 2 hours in the whole night, and my routine transformed like her’s.
Sleeping woes continuessss..
She is 5 today and have many things on her plate – play time, fun time, school time and chatting time (sorry that is constant) we go to bed by 10:30 pm with the notion to sleep at least in 30 minutes however these 30 minutes have capability in turning into 300 any given night… phew! When I learned the prompt of the week on #mondaymommymoments I burst out laughing – and my first reaction was – “I do not put her to SLEEP, it’s she who does this to me ;)”….
Sleeping Policy
We honestly don’t have any policy or regime when it comes to putting little miss to Sleep, learned this from hard laboured earned experience… *Yawn* However, we do some daily rituals or rules before hitting bed – together.
- I finish her dinner by 8:30 pm which gives us good 2 hours to digest and be safe from untimely poo calls or belching burps in night.
- A mug of warm milk just before sleeping, have observed this induce healthy sleep and she doesn’t get up in between giving me scares for life.
- We read a story – a happy story on bed, usually my stories have her as protagonist and bad habit as an evil monster, e.g., her favourite is when she fights the monster (in frozen’s ELSA glittery gown) who hits small kids & litter the roads.
- Keep the room dark and quite – with light; comes the reflections and shadows which can give lot of ideas to these tiny brain factories, on just one little shadow she can talk for 60 whole minutes 😀 hence, I do not bring any such chances and keep room dark.
- Let the excess energy pass – when the schools are closed and not much to do at home, I take her to parks or to the pools to kill the excess energy stored in tiny limbs and brain. Exhaustion welcomes hunger and sleep home.
- Slowly this has become a pattern for us, but we are flexible when it comes to changing any activity due to demand of day/time.
- We break the monotony of plain and simple sleeping and do pyjama parties on weekends – creating tent with bed sheets and bringing funny shadows from torch lights is her idea for fun. It gets super exciting for her when daddy dear joins as Peppa Pig – Daddy Pig 😉 oink oink
- I am a firm believer of – let them be their age; there are times when I myself break the rules defined for sleeping. Today she’s of the age when can have all fun without being worried – life ahead is full of challenges and tasks.
These are just few of things we follow for happy and good night sleep, do share with me – What you do to put kids – to Sleep.
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28 Comments
Pajama party sounds fun 🙂
I also make them have a warm mug of milk minutes before bedtime!
Lol, truly, it’s the kids who make us sleep 😉
Hahaha thanks Z, glad you like it
Pyjama parties….let me join too there…my son goes to bed and becomes more active there. Jumping is all he finds his fun in!!!
Hahaha kids… phew energy power plants
Haha..she is the one who puts me to sleep. Actually, that happens with all of us. great tips. Thanks Dipika for linking up 🙂
Thanks Deepa ❤❤
Creating tent with bed sheets and happy stories?I am telling you this is uncanny or God gives all moms these brain waves.We do tents every weekend.Unbelievable .Loved this post and watch out for a surprise!
Thanks a lot Amrita.. 🙂
I love how methodical you are. I realised long back that routines work well for young children. That you relax them on weekends is even better. Oh and I loved the idea of stories with she the protagonist and a bad habit a villain – that’s a stroke of genius.
Thank You so much Tulika for liking 🙂
Great tips and quotes with superb pics on sleeping.
Loved your post Dipika. In initial years I was strict with timings for bed, but then slowly I understood that sleep is not something that comes by putting stress. Our bedtime include stories, giggles and at time screams from my end….
Thank You Hena, really sleep time is the most crucial for sound and peaceful sleep
I can’t sleep in the dark room but silence do wonders for my sleep
I try to make sure that I follow the bed time rituals to the dot! but yes, we have our good days and down days! and then children ALWAYS know how to get an extra five minutes from their usual routine!
true that, thanks for reading
i love the PJ party idea. It must be so much fun
This is such an adorable post . I totally loved it ?
You have a great regime.. draining their energy is really important for a good nights sleep
While maintaining a routine is important, so is breaking the monotony. Great that you have a regime but still let them be kids and enjoy.
I follow what you have said here regularly. dark and silent room with happy stories truly help.
We do follow the steps for silence and peaceful sleep. Infact if you sleep peacefully undisturbe you can use your brain 25% more read somewhere and think positively. 🙂
Some new moms feel putting their baby to sleep is tough task… This is something some one can try following… Loved your post
That’s a very thoughtful post! Definitely gonna try this out for the kids at home 🙂
Lovely post … would love to follow this
I completely agree with the rituals that you have mentioned for everyday. Even I try and stick to these for peaceful sleep for myself 🙂
Thank You Rakhi
It is such a cute post and there are so many ideas… I like pajama party… Even this is a hard time these days to make my son sleep early..