For Lord of the Files – “What Life really needs is much more love, compassion and less of paperwork

lord of files barathon

This is my entry for the fifth day of #BarAthon 2017, the fortnight-long blogging marathon for bloggers, organised by Blog-A-Rhythm! Today’s prompt is ‘Lord of the FILES’, featured in my fictional story.

Chandan was sleeping with his entire kin when they stormed through doors with sticks and live torches, gents of the family were sleeping on bunks near main door (as per their patriarch order) hence fell first victims of their hatred, in the midst of extreme chaos, shouts and smoke all he could manage was a last glimpse of his own people burning before someone pushed him to the rear door that opens towards the rail tracks. Disoriented he kept running towards the chugging sound without turning back, his eyes were on fire from the heat within.

1982, Modinagar district Ghaziabad India, Sulekha told bank manager nth number of time that she never gave anyone authority to withdraw money on her behalf from the account, but he gave her the same impassive look. She again narrated the entire story of Chandan’s migration from Rawalpindi Pakistan to Modinagar, India during Partition, their marriage, age and years of her kids birth, their marriages, etc… etc.. All she heard in return from his is – ‘mataji koi kagaj patri hai kya‘? (do you have any documents with you) she felt defeated, but doesn’t want them to know this…. she know they all are eyeing her wealth, she has to look brave and strong. With a confident look she picked up her papers, put them in a polythene bag and left only to return again prepared. Bank Manager said again, ‘mataji, bina kagaj ke kuch nahi ho sakta‘. (without proper paperwork nothing can be done)

It was the winters of 1970 when Chandan Malkhan married Sulekha, Chandan Sweets (Rawalpindi Waale) is a well known name in the entire area famous for it’s Karanchi Halwa and pure desi ghee sweets. Everyone loved the sweet delicacies made here, be it a marriage or a birthday – a box of Chandan Sweets is a matter of pride. Blessed with 2 sons they had a perfect family anyone can dream of, his dreadful escape is the matter of past… he never shared the memories of that ghastly night with anyone, not even his wife all they knew was he came to Modinagar from Pakistan during partition and settled here working day and night to make a better living.

 

Everything was just perfect when one fateful day Chandan passed due to cardiac arrest, and like a typical 1980s Indian family without writing his will and mentioning a nominee. With each passing day the power struggle in brothers turned into deceiving, hiding from and manipulating each other. Sulekha’s love and confidence on her boys never made her suspicious of their ill motives, taking advantage of her inadequate education and unconditional love they took her thumb impression on ‘Power of Attorney‘ declaration and left her to live on rags or beg.

Wife of Late. Chandan Malkhan of Chandan Sweet’s is living a life of a beggar, from riches to rags!

A local news paper headline state the ordeal she was going through, an NGO came forward to help her, to educate her about legal rights and to fight her case in the court of Law against those who cheated her, she is fighting for what is her’s, she’s fighting for her rights, fighting for many like her who have been left being a LORD but only of the FILES aptly named – The Lord of Files…

 

Author’s thought – today we have came a long way from what is mentioned in the story, however still there are many such families where writing a ‘legal will’, mentioning a ‘nominee’ is still considered unnecessary. Kindly educate people around you, specially your house help, any elderly you know in or near your family. This is important, not that everyone is greedy but proper ‘paperwork’ is the perfect work.

Catch more from the Blog-A-Thon series:

Day 1. The Fault in our Stares

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43 Comments

Ranjini · June 26, 2017 at 3:49 pm

Children are ill treating their parents in many ways. Putting them in oldage home is one thing and tortures like them in this manner is another.
Lovely story. I hope we our generation would be better.

    gleefulblogger · June 26, 2017 at 4:12 pm

    Thank You so much for kind words and feedback.

Varadharajan · June 26, 2017 at 4:55 pm

Heartbreaking and very infuriating. How many such stories have happened and are still happening! My own family fell victim to my dad’s erstwhile partner. Money changes people’s nature. It’s up to us to educate ourselves to escape the sharks. Very well written, Cheers.

    gleefulblogger · June 26, 2017 at 5:30 pm

    Thank You very much for reading and commenting.

zainab · June 26, 2017 at 6:27 pm

Really sad, for Chandan’s wife:(

    gleefulblogger · June 27, 2017 at 4:54 am

    Thanks a lot Z for reading.

Marquessa · June 26, 2017 at 7:57 pm

This such a creative and sad take on this prompt. Great post!

    gleefulblogger · June 27, 2017 at 4:53 am

    Thank You so much

Esha · June 26, 2017 at 10:28 pm

You’re right, Dipika. I have seen so many families where this has caused a rift within, not to mention in-fighting between siblings over property matters. Very topical story, indeed.

    gleefulblogger · June 26, 2017 at 5:30 pm

    Thank You 🙂

SHALINI · June 27, 2017 at 1:44 am

I just wonder how children/siblings turn on each other or parents in such times – forgetting all the good times and the struggles faced together!!
I have seen so much strife in my father’s side of the family over money for past 40 years of my life and I just wonder WHY? what has it gotten anyone of them?!!! They have all lost so much because of it yet they persist to go on in it!
Its a disgusting thing to do but I wonder where these traits of greed for money comes into us?
Well written one Dipika

    gleefulblogger · June 27, 2017 at 4:53 am

    Thanks a lot Shalz… yes this is happening everywhere around us. Sometimes it make me wonder do we have some consciousness left in us today???

Rajlakshmi · June 27, 2017 at 4:38 am

Fights related to property can become so ugly and violent. Indeed a proper will is necessary in these days. Well written.

    gleefulblogger · June 27, 2017 at 4:50 am

    Thank You

Obsessivemom · June 27, 2017 at 9:49 am

It is unimaginable that such close relationships go sour when it comes to money matters. You made a very valid point when you said that proper paperwork helps maintain order and does away with ambiguity after you are gone.

    gleefulblogger · June 27, 2017 at 10:23 am

    Thanks a lot dear for reading and commenting

DeeDee · June 27, 2017 at 9:56 am

This angers me, its unfair and sad. But, also the truth,not just in India but many parts of the world.
Superb take on the prompt

Click to Read my #Barathon2017 Seven Deadly Sins posts

    gleefulblogger · June 27, 2017 at 4:51 am

    Thank You very much.
    Will surely got through yours.

kavita · June 27, 2017 at 11:19 am

Such creative piece of writing with strong message. Thank you for sharing this.

    gleefulblogger · June 27, 2017 at 11:40 am

    Thanks a lot dear for reading and your KIND words.

Neha · June 27, 2017 at 12:09 pm

Extremely disturbing. Read about the state of elders in our country and I was left teary eyed. Great post talking about a relevant issue

    gleefulblogger · June 27, 2017 at 1:07 pm

    Thanks a lot for reading dear. I truly agree with you.

anupriya · June 27, 2017 at 3:22 pm

earlier generation took away the parents’ wealth and left them to god’s mercy. Well today a set of people has gone a step further and created paid old age homes where they pay for their parents accommodation so that they could live a life with no responsibilities and interference. I wonder which one is worse.

This one really pushed my heart to my mouth. Nicely portrayed !

    gleefulblogger · June 27, 2017 at 5:46 pm

    Thanks a lot Anupriya for stopping by and reading. I so agree with you, everyday news papers scream of this new trend of leaving aged parents alone to get ridiculed as rubble. Hope we learn and stop before it’s too late.

Jiya B · June 29, 2017 at 4:41 pm

I recently met some one who is in repetance after he lost his mom. Well Parents at an age love and seek only some time from us. And its our duty yesterday we were their responsibilty today they are our’s. Very beautifully written.

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    gleefulblogger · June 29, 2017 at 11:13 am

    Thank You very much dear for reading and connecting

Shubhreet Kaur | Raising Karma Blog · June 29, 2017 at 7:21 pm

I started reading it as a story but there’s a lesson at the end. You are so right in saying that Indian’s don’t plan their wills. And we really should. We never know when disaster strikes and one needs to think of who is left behind. More awareness definitely needs to created.

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priyadarshani panda · June 30, 2017 at 3:59 am

Thats so sad parents who did everything for the children are now duped by them…yes planning is important money should never come into relationship clarity and proper planning is required

    gleefulblogger · June 30, 2017 at 4:15 am

    Thanks You for stopping by and connecting

Manisha Garg · June 30, 2017 at 5:38 am

This is true. Parents build a legacy while, children only want the money. They fight over it and forget who helped them build it.

Mahak @babyandbeyondin · June 30, 2017 at 6:01 am

Its sad but this is a very common story in many families in India. Heartbreaking

    gleefulblogger · June 30, 2017 at 6:03 am

    Thank You for stopping by and reading

Minakshi bajpai · June 30, 2017 at 9:43 am

Really feel bad for chandan’s wife.. But we should learn a lesson from this story too..great post dear..

Nayantara |MommyingbabyT · June 30, 2017 at 11:47 am

It is truly sad how relationships and circumstances change almost overnight in families. I have seen this with so many families and it saddens me. It could happen to us too at anytime in the future. Scary prospect.

Charu Sareen Gujjal · June 30, 2017 at 12:07 pm

A very strong story with some valid points made. Relationships are fragile and so extra care should be taken to keep them intact. A will in today’s time is a must, indeed.

Shipra Trivedi · June 30, 2017 at 4:52 pm

The story broke my heart. And even made me think that parents should be prepared with any such thing coming in their future..

manveen · June 30, 2017 at 5:17 pm

Relationships are so fragile and definitely need to be nurtured.

Parul Thakur · July 2, 2017 at 7:26 pm

I love the message that you have shared. My husband and I have thought about writing our will and we will do that.

    gleefulblogger · July 2, 2017 at 4:35 pm

    Thank You so much for reading and connecting

Sujata Bansod · July 5, 2017 at 11:38 am

you are writing the burning fact of the family , dipika

    gleefulblogger · July 5, 2017 at 12:13 pm

    Thank You

saim malik · October 23, 2017 at 5:42 am

wow nice post thanks for sharing

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